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Comment on Happy 1st Anniversary! (to me…) by neibor

neibor — Tue, 06 Dec 2011 15:16:22 +0000

“Boundaries in Marriage” by Dr Henry Cloud & Dr John Townsend. Available from Christian bookstores.

Comment on Being pregnant and all alone … sucks big time… by neibor

neibor — Sat, 15 Oct 2011 08:53:25 +0000

hope ur mum’s with u in this. no fun going it alone esp. when u need the emotional support. hang in there. it’d be over before u knew it, and dat’s gonna start a new phase for u. mum & baby phase.

Comment on Frankly my dear, i don’t give a damn…anymore… by The Hermit

The Hermit — Fri, 09 Sep 2011 02:06:09 +0000

well said neighbour… i agree…

Comment on Frankly my dear, i don’t give a damn…anymore… by Anonymous

Anonymous — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 14:42:38 +0000

Marriage is never easy, esp. for independent women. Give in as much as you want, but stand up for yourself too. People will ‘bully’ us as much as we allow them to.

neibor

Comment on My 2011 quest … by neibor

neibor — Wed, 05 Jan 2011 04:54:30 +0000

neibor, happy new year to u, and may 2011 be a year of wonderful blessings to u!

Comment on Trying to get used to the idea of “being married”… by charles

charles — Sun, 05 Dec 2010 13:45:55 +0000

congratulations again ma’am. God bless.

Comment on Keeping kewl… breaking down with retail therapy! by The Hermit

The Hermit — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 03:37:09 +0000

hahahahaha i understand … i’m learning to keep my kewl…thanks!!!!

Comment on Keeping kewl… breaking down with retail therapy! by neibor

neibor — Tue, 28 Sep 2010 17:19:52 +0000

One wise advice I had which I now wished I had followed on my wedding day, and which I am now passing on to you – no matter how well a wedding a planned, there will still be remarks and happenings that will affect your emotions on the big day. So on that day, just tell yourself, no matter what, you’re gonna smile for the camera and enjoy your day, and to xx@#$% with those who can’t see the beauty of the day.

Comment on Experiencing the hhhhhhmmmmmm moment … by neibor

neibor — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 20:48:07 +0000

it’s a life changing experience. there are pros and cons, but on the whole the pros outweigh the cons. no one can tell u just how much adjustment needs to be made, you have to live it yourself.
all the best to you and ur other half in your new life tgthr.

Comment on From the outside looking in… by Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 18 Jul 2010 14:16:20 +0000

Eckhart Tolle says in situations that would bring one down (or something like that), there are three things that can be done – act on it, remove oneself from it or just surrender to it.

>>>> Very true. Once can remove oneself from it … not necessarily physically, but emotionally so that so it does not affect you one bit. It’s like … watching soap opera one is not involved in. Stays sane that way. All the best, and look at that one beautiful thing that is happening in your life now.

neibor