These days, “the more the merrier” concept seems to be the winning formula. Or so everyone seems to think. Someone said something very important today. We focus too much on numbers. We’ve become a numbers driven society. Whenever we organise something, we always look to see how many people turn up. Or if we’re in [...]
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Whaddya mean “the more the merrier!”… succumbing to the numbers driven life… or not?
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Random thots ... on August 11, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Things are clearer upon acceptance…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on August 2, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
If there’s one thing that has taught me well in the last few weeks – patience. Never over-react. Think think think… and accept whatever that comes your way. So there i was, in midst of an internal turmoil as to where my career was heading… i think that it really did affect my, physically, emotionally [...]
From the outside looking in…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Life's like that... on July 16, 2010 | 1 Comment »
I guess that’s how i’ve always felt in a lot a ways since i was very young … too timid to really get involved, and too private to tell anyone exactly how i feel. Hahahahah and to think i’m in the communication business! So here i am, after five years of putting in a lot, [...]
Paradise lost…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on July 12, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
Ok… this is exactly how i feel… can’t blame it on PMS though this time… This time, it’s really tears of frustration… to finally give in, and realise that no matter how much i try, i really cant give “benefit of the doubt” to certain humanoids, even more after finding out certain fact last friday [...]
Trying to change behaviours? Nope, no can do…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Random thots ... on May 20, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
So here it is… how does one go around changing the behaviour of others? Hahahahah not in this lifetime! I’ve always had this thought, if you cant change them at 25, no one can! So really, i’ve been very patient of late, more so since i started my PG13 Project but really, the more i [...]
Heralding the start of the PG13 Project …
Posted in Dealing with humans... on March 31, 2010 | 1 Comment »
Seriously, the month of March has been strictly a month of thinking and observing and learning … it was trying to learn what i should NOT be as i get older. Some of them: – People are all for themselves, some times, most times. They forget there are others around them and sadly, think only [...]
Days of surreal-ism…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Life's like that... on February 16, 2010 | 1 Comment »
So here i am… after having a few days off from the chinese new year hols and what did i do … take care of my sick mum. Ok maybe not take care… but just keeping an eye on her. She was down with viral fever and i think this time, she was hit pretty [...]
Sense and sensitivities…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on November 6, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Of late, i’ve been in the midst of friends telling me “I’m engaged!”, “He proposed!” etc and really, one or two, i can handle but when i keep hearing more of that, i’m beginning to wonder at my sorry state of affairs … It’s not like i’m unhappy. In fact, i’m just really happy that they’ve finally [...]
This thing called friendship…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on September 11, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Very interesting topic someone asked me to write about… relationship between friends and where do you draw the line? As a child, i had a really cool bunch of friends and we would spend hours on the phone trying to get our homework done, talk about our … eerrr issues back then, and really, just have fun [...]
When your demons come crashing in…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on September 8, 2009 | 1 Comment »
The most instructive experiences are those of every day life… Nietzsche. Seriously… life is so strange… yet enriching. I learn something new each day. New experiences that teach me how complex humans actually are. Recently, i was reacquainted with a very interesting individual. SpunkyMasterP and I have been friends for a long time … an on and [...]