Happy Anniversary! I’ve made it through the last 12 months of marriage… by the skin of my teeth! I find myself married to someone very loving and caring and i couldn’t have asked for someone better… but the distance has been really hard for me… and him, i think. But i’ve persevered thus far… tho there have been [...]
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Happy 1st Anniversary! (to me…)
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Life's like that... on November 9, 2011 | 1 Comment »
Frankly my dear, i don’t give a damn…anymore…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Life's like that... on August 12, 2011 | 2 Comments »
I haven’t blogged for ages… work, getting used to the first three months of being pregnant was tough on me, and then home renovation started and yes, i’m still pregnant, cohabiting with dust and cement. And while of these was going on, i realised that there a loads of things i’ve been patient about but [...]
Striving for positivity…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Life's like that... on May 11, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Did you know, that the hardest thing to do is to remain positive about things? Oh well, it is for me. When i’m constantly surrounded by naysayers. Sometimes, i try very hard but when one is faced with people coming and telling me stuff that really, dont make sense, it’s really very hard not [...]
The Ying & Yang of having labels…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Issues on April 11, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Strange but interesting times we live in today. We have a label for everything or everyone. Person who always wants have the last word (cos that would mean they’re the best) – mizz know-it-all, power hungry. Person who shops at only designer boutiques - brand whore. Person who talks well, but the output…. but they can still [...]
Walking away…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Random thots ... on February 24, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Humans like to complicate matters. They love making mountains out of mole hills, do their damndest best to be irritating and not do what they’re supposed to do… simply avoid being responsible! And that really irks me. Worst is when they like to take things for granted and always, always pushing the buck to someone [...]
Not too crazy about decisions…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Life's like that..., Random thots ... on February 16, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
So here i am, another day clocking in close to 12 over hours at the office, stuck here not because i didnt finish my job but doing someone elses who didnt bother to go through the details. So why am i still here? Cos i’m responsible and accountable. Even then, i know i will [...]
That whatchamacallit streak…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on January 18, 2011 | Leave a Comment »
Firstly, let’s disabuse ourselves of the notion that we must have what others have. We must do what others do. That we must be ahead of the game at every point in time, and run down everyone we meet along the way. Why? i kept seeing this over and over again, more accutely in the [...]
Humans and their tendency to be so self absorbed…
Posted in Dealing with humans... on November 3, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
There is one thing, if anything, about people that really gives me continuous pain… is how they think the world revolves around them. Only they have problems. Only they have a bad day. Only they have a lot of work. Only they are stressed. Only have the largest workload and are terribly overworked. Oh yes, [...]
Keeping the Zen feel…
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Wedding on October 27, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
And so the clock continues to tick … And i’m trying very hard to keep zen like… seriously, never try to organise a wedding on your own cos breakdown or melt down is imminent. And what they say about organising weddings is true – yes, it can cause a good number of headaches… even [...]
Seriously… Go Fish!!!
Posted in Dealing with humans..., Wedding on October 11, 2010 | Leave a Comment »
So here i am, at the point of really deciding who’s going to be invited to my wedding and as usual, i think of of certain individuals… And as usual, they have never failed to dissappoint. Scenario 1 Me:XXX, i’m getting married in XXX and i’d like to invite you to come to my wedding. [...]
