So Sofea, time has passed and you’ve passed the 3-month old age on April 18 … what has happened?
Well, you’re growing very fast… at our last visit to Dr Musa, you were already 5.4kg and 57 cm long… you didnt cry much when the doctor gave you your second booster jab cos mummy was there with you. You were so well behaved throughout the whole visit – i was very proud of you!
Did i tell you we dressed you in a very pretty red dress mummy bought for you from Batu Pahat? You looked absolutely “gorjes” in it!
Anyway, after the visit, you developed slight fever and the next day. So mummy cancelled her day out to melaka with Godma, Aunty Carmen and Aunty Mal. So they sent over loads of pictures to mummy to fill her in…
Mummy, Grannie and Aunty Eva took you out for your first social outing to KLCC… mummy bought you your first pair of beautiful white panties, then we had lunch to celebrate mummy’s birthday and new job. Yes, i’m leaving my current job so that i’ll have time to see you grow… i dont want to miss these precious moments.
You’ve grown up so much… even when Papa called the barber to come over and shave off all ur hair on April 12, you never cried. But yes, you were a little crabby after that! hahahahaha…
During ur baptism which was held on March 18, I’d forgotten to write a letter about what our hopes and dreams were for you… well… let me see…
When you were conceived, i prayed hard that by God’s grace, He will grant you the gift of wisdom, intelligence, humility, charitable, compassion, kindness, and all the graces of Jesus Christ. Hence, i wanted to call you Sofea which means “wisdom”. Your indian name means “beautiful”.
Now… as i see you grow each day, i’m beginnning to see that He has been kind to me and for that i’m thankful. You listen to Mummy and Papa and Grannie, and you do as we say. You’re adorable and really, a good baby.
What do i want you to be?
Just to be a good person.
Full of wisdom and knowledge. Intelligence.
Truthful. Honest.
Beautiful inside out. Humble. Kind. Full of compassion. Patient. Caring. Loving.
Everything that i had prayed (and still continue to pray) for.
To respect your elders.
To respect everyone for who they are, no matter what race, colour or beliefs.
To have an open mind. To be ready to try anything.
To be brave and confident.
Never to be afraid to stand for the truth (within boundaries la…).
To empathise with those around you.
To always listen to Mummy
Seriously, i want you to excel in your studies and get a good job and a good future. Never forget your prayers no matter where you are, or how old you are.
Although jokingly i say that you should be a rockstar, i’m not joking when i see that you seem to have an affinity to music, even at this young age. Every morning, if i’m there, i put on nursery ryhmes or children hymns for you. And your current fav tv shows are Glee 3 and American Idol 11! Everytime you watch these shows where there’s always singing and dancing, you’re moving! Granny, mummy and Aunty Eva like to watch you groove to music… waving ur hands and legs and moving your little body – it’s incredible that you do this at 3 months!!!
We put a new wall sticker up in your room to get it more colourfull… and Granny and Aunty Eva have started with helping you turnover and stand on ur feet… slowly… you’re getting even more comfortable in your bouncer these days… sigh, yes you are growing!